A Valentine's Day post..with nuggets

So, here we are.  It's the eve of Valentine's.  It feels no less or more special than any other day that I've looked forward to, or remembered in the past.  I want to start with a video from a gal I discovered this morning.  She's speaking on the "nice guys" who don't get girls and why.

The interesting part about this little v-log that she created is that what she's talking about is things I had to discover on my own.  I have a wounded heart.  Not to say that it's still being wounded because I took the steps I had to get away from it.  But it's still wounded.  I know what it is to hurt.  Some days, I feel like grumpy cat holding an umbrella.

I mean, it isn't that I don' t want love.  It's more than I don't want a downpour and being drenched in so much mixed emotion.  I have extreme difficulty picking out who's loving on me because they are interested in me as a person --- as opposed to those loving on me because that's what they think they have to do.

But at the same time, I don't want to do a asshole action like

But, to the part of kissing (which I've not done to a girl in months), there's this one thing to consider.  I mean, at least be healthy!

Oh and if you do end up on a date where it seems that there will be no close contact or sex, consider the following treat idea.  I haven't created this yet, but it looks to be fun AND delicious.

And since I've gotten you this far, here's the second part.  The audio isn't all that great, but consider she's driving.  And video-blogging.

~MW~